You are here

morethanibargainedfor's Blog

Its always something with BM

morethanibargainedfor's picture

Submitted by morethanibargai... on Mon, 03/24/2014 - 8:39am

We had SD13 this weekend because BM and her new boyfriend went to cuba. She didn't even tell us she was going to cuba until last week. And also didn't inform us as to where SD was going while she was in Cuba. After prying it out of her she says her aunt is staying at the house with SD. SO freaks out and says no, she can stay with us for the weekend and her aunt can stay with her during the week since SO is going out of town again for work.

Waiting, waiting, waiting....

morethanibargainedfor's picture

Submitted by morethanibargai... on Tue, 03/18/2014 - 3:18pm

The crisis worker came on Sunday. She did her interview with SD and determined that she's not suicidal.
She said that she is not allowed to tell us what they talked about, but she is allowed to tell us one thing that SD was said ok....
Turns out that SD13's main stressor and the reason she's having so many issues lately is because of BM's boyfriend!!! Oh really BM....would you look at that...it appears as though its NOT our fault! Told ya! Bitch!

Hopeful for a good weekend....

morethanibargainedfor's picture

Submitted by morethanibargai... on Fri, 03/14/2014 - 8:51am

SO is coming home tonight from being away all week! I'm pretty excited to see him since we spent most of last weekend fighting.
SD13 is also coming this weekend. I am really going to try my hardest this weekend to not be so irritated by her. I feel bad for the kid, its not necessarily her fault that she's so messed up.

Ready to lose my mind on BM....

morethanibargainedfor's picture

Submitted by morethanibargai... on Wed, 03/12/2014 - 10:27am

We have SD EOW and Thursdays. We try to have her over for dinner or whatever more than that but she always is "sick" or has a "project" or whatever and cant come. Its like pulling teeth to even get her to come Thursdays. BM texted last weekend and said "SD probably doesn't want to stay at your house any longer than she has to so bring her home soon". Shes such a bitch.

I think he's leaving....

morethanibargainedfor's picture

Submitted by morethanibargai... on Tue, 03/11/2014 - 7:37am

SO is away for work again this week. We had another big fight late Sunday night and he slept on the couch.
He left yesterday morning for work before I got up. I texted him when I got up to see how his drive was going and he told me he was still upset and he feels like I don't trust him (I said some things I shouldn't have and can understand why he would think I don't trust him). Him being away all week has really taken a toll on me and on our relationship.

Am I out of line

morethanibargainedfor's picture

Submitted by morethanibargai... on Mon, 03/10/2014 - 9:23am

The last couple of weekends that we have had SD13 have not gone very well.
SO is getting increasingly frustrated and irritated with her about almost everything she does. We have her EOW and what used to be fun weekends filled with games and walks and outings have now turned into SO getting upset with her and the whole weekend is spent doing pretty much nothing because she's either in trouble or he's so irritated that he
doesn't want to take her anywhere or do anything with her.

Pages