Update about ex-husband who wanted sit down with
Update about ex-husband who wanted sit down with one of my male relatives. So apparently my narcissistic ex-husband who was turned down when he requested to have a sit down with one of my male relatives to presumably discuss me decided he wasn't taking no for an answer.
I talked to my male relative over the weekend and told him that not only had my toxic ex with the toxic adult kids been trying to contact me this past week but I had also been receiving calls from either anonymous numbers or numbers I didn't recognize. This male relative proceeded to ask if I thought the anonymous calls and calls coming from numbers I didn't know were from my narcissistic ex with the toxic adult kids or my narcissistic ex-husband. I told him I thought the calls were likely coming from both.
My male relative seemed shocked. Then he proceeded to tell me that even though he declined a sit down with my narcissistic ex-husband, apparently my narcissistic ex-husband obtained his number and contacted him anyway. My male relative said he wasn't going to tell me what he said to my narcissistic ex-husband, but he knew after what he said to my narcissistic ex-husband that he wasn't worried about my narcissistic ex-husband ever reaching out to him again and he figured he would just move on.
I don't think my male relative understands narcissistic personality disorder. If my ex-husband husband was capable of truly moving on, he would have done that many years ago. If he was capable of moving on, he would have respected my male relatives decision not to have a sit down conversation with him. In discussing it with another male relative, he said my narcissistic ex-husband better not try reaching out to him for a sit down because all he is going to do is tell him he has no information to share with him about me and that he needed to sit down with a counselor and figure out how to leave me alone and be a man and deal with his own self-created problems. Sheesh