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Submitted by Mtbqueen on Mon, 08/13/2018 - 1:32pm

I'm so over everything. I feel like there is no love in this house. I'm tired of his kids and how they act over here they make huge messes and never have to clean it up. The youngest is extremely babied both of the boys still sleep with their mom 10 and almost 14. The daughter is so dramatic and is always starting fights with her brothers but they are always the ones that get in trouble he never says anything to her she once even started a fight and her brother pushed her resulting in her arm being  broken, that we are still paying for. It's like my kids don't even exist everything is always about his kids  and I think he is overly obsessed with their sports it annoys me that we spend so much time and money on stuff that they don't appreciate. Sorry for the rant. Also sorry for lack of punctuation. I've had no one to talk to and just kept typing....

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Submitted by Siemprematahari on Mon, 08/13/2018 - 1:52pm

Do you have any children together? If this f@ckery continues have you thought about what you will do? What will be your next steps? If you are unhappy and don't see a change in sight, how long will continue on like this?

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Submitted by Mtbqueen on Mon, 08/13/2018 - 2:10pm

No we don't have any children together. I have left before and I'm thinking of ending it for good. You are totally right I'm this unhappy and it's not going to get better. His daughter is the definition of mini wife. Everything is always about him and his kids. 

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Submitted by TwoOfUs on Mon, 08/13/2018 - 2:14pm

Ooof. 

Just looked at your profile. 7 kids is a lot to handle...especially when half of them are skids. 

I'm oldest of 6, and my parents did an amazing job...but I know how chaotic it can get. We were really good at playing outside and entertaining ourselves...and the older kids would take care of and look out for the younger. 

I doubt your older kids want to take on the younger skids...and it sounds like skids are old enough to care for and entertain themselves but have been coddled instead of being taught to be self-sufficient. Miserable. 

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Submitted by StepUltimate on Mon, 08/13/2018 - 2:27pm

We understand, and are here to encourage you!

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Submitted by Mtbqueen on Mon, 08/13/2018 - 2:33pm

My kids can't stand his kids. The 2 oldest moved out right away. The skids would come right in their room and break their things right in front of them. I should have ran for the hills long ago. I feel like I failed my own kids

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Submitted by hereiam on Mon, 08/13/2018 - 2:40pm

It's not too late. To leave, I mean, and give your kids a better environment. And you, too!

It's bad enough to have siblings getting into your stuff but to have to deal with it from kids they are not even related to and do not even like? It's not fair for everything to be about your step kids, while your kids get pushed aside.