hi! Its me again, Whining and complaining cuz once again DH go at it again in regards to his children (7 & 9). This time? Cuz i told him to stop enabling them. 

• When I first met my DH, I always heard stories of how my in laws loved his ex. I wanted them to love me just as much or more to you know, have a great relationship. Well, after 5 years i still dont feel a bond with MIL. I really feel that shes fake, she isnt genuine. When I feel something, the feel is always strong and i am almost right. Every time DH family has get togethers, its always my MIL, her other daughter in law and my SIL sitting together and gossiping about others. I watch, i observe, I listen and just stay quiet.

Part of me wants to just give up already and leave, but part of me cant. 

So I have posted in a previous blog about how I am done enforcing ANYTHING to my stepkids because they like to paint me as this evil person. The outcome would be that my Husband would start saying his kids didnt want to come home in his time anymore and make it seem because I was the one not treating them well. ALL because I would try to enforce rules and decipline, morals and values. I enforce all this with my own children. I also have posted how his little 7 yr old brat of a daughter always tries to get her way,has lied on me a few times and so on.