So Bm and her lawyer asked for Attorney fees and cost to be paid by my DH at our Final hearing months ago Dh told judge he did not agree his reasons and then Judge stated Bm's lawyer is to submit a list of his fees and then Judge told DH that he did not need to respond to lawyers submission and that for the record he was made to repeat his position. Fast forward a few months Dh gets an order stating he is to pay 60% of BM's fees because he did not respond. WTF seems like judge set DH up in the first place Dh is self represented of course just our luck and now this waste of space is demanding full payment or an outrageous monthly payment, mind you Dh is our sole provider for out family. I dont understand how this bs happens If Dh had the money he would have gotten a lawyer himself. Dont know what to do and if Submitting anything to the court would make a difference at this point.