It's been almost a year since I posted anything. My updated is I got married 5 months ago and as of now I HAVE NO GROWN ASS STEPKIDS IN THE HOUSE and I love it. I had a 24SS with his 2y/o and a 30SS living with us. I thought I was going to lose my damn mind. The 24ss went to school and move back home where his BM lives(not with her)but he has JOB and doing better. Well the 30ss i just knew he was going to be with us forever because he had been living with us for almost 2yrs and dont do anything. Dad stayed on him and told him he need to do something with his life and finally gave him 3mths to do something or he had to go. Recently, He met a girl online and left with her hopefully he won't come back. I love that we have our privacy back and our home. To everyone with grown stepkids, Let it go and let it flow and Pray that, THAT great day will come because it did for me