So SD10s school report was in the kitchen and I snooped. She got ALL fails. Not 1 single positive. Showed no improvement over the quarter. Did not show grade level proficiency in ANYTHING. Plus, shes been getting all these rewards for behaving in school and now to find out she doesn't even consistently do her homework. Of course SO probably is making some excuse in his mind. Its disgusting if you ask me.
Now on to him treating her like a girlfriend not a daughter. There is one small ray of progress. She tried to kiss him on the mouth the other day and he turned her head and kissed her on the cheek. I just find it gross that after he kisses me or its wrestling around with me he feels the need to go do THE SAME thing with her. SHE IS NOT your girlfriend bub. You do not need to treat her the same as me. Thank goodness he doesn't kiss her like that any more though. And I've already broken him of the whole sleeping in the same room as her. She doesn't need to kiss her father on the mouth and she doesn't need to be sleeping anywhere but in the other room from him. Hopefully things continue to progress in this direction.