My SD came back into my husbands later fe after years of no contact. She is 20 years old, she had no where to live at the time ( convienient I think) after falling out with her mother. She has systematically turned my own D against me because I appear to be the only one that can see what she is doing. NOTHING!!!! she refuses to work, is useless around the house saying she has never been shown how to do housework!!!! She can cook  but my god she can certainly put the food away and all she does is sit playing in her phone. I work 2 jobs just to pay the bills and she does nothing to help.