I came to steptalk to escape this morning because between my sons father and his crap last night, and the SO/Skid crap today, im pretty much over it.

But i get on here and see people being whiney and bitchy and it actually just annoyed me even WORSE. name calling and pity parties.

On the pity party, you can only expect so much pity. And if you get bent out of shape everytime sometime disagrees with you, that is not an attack. that is you looking for attn and someone to justify your actions and getting upset when someone calls you out, or says the opposite of what you want to hear, and you running around like a jr high school girl looking for people to "support" you against the mean ole bullies.

And name calling, really, just grow up. We all have enough to deal with in our daily lives than some poster on a forum who woke up on the wrong side of the bed just flat out being rude.

Now, i f I may, complain about the real reason I came here.

if you have read any of my previous stuff, you know my exh is a piece of work. Up until recently we have had a pretty cordial relationship. I dont know or pretend to know what is going on with his private life, but it depresses me to know that I have to pull out mama tiger on his ass. He called my son last night all bent out of shape because bs was "ignoring" him. Now, this comes from a man who hasnt seen his kid since christmas, is 2 months behind on CS (not typical) and who to jail in Jan for pulling a gun on his current wife in front of their special needs kid. Im over it. He has posted all over his fb about his drama, and how much he loves current wife, their dtr and never mentions bs. he has posted about selling a car he has discussed giving to ss. He got a new number and didnt not give it to bs for 2 weeks.

So he upsets bs to near tears last night, and got on the phone with me, via my sons phone. he sounded drunk or high, and was enraged that bs was avoiding him on fb (my mom plays bs fb early so he gets his extra game stuff)and told me i had 10 min to figure out what the problem was and to call him back. This idiot, didnt even realize it was his weekend to VISIT with ss, and kept arguing with me for 15 mins about scheduling next weekend. I even had to inform him that his OWN surgery was not last week, but the week before. Im so ready to smack this fool i could scream.

Then after I had to pull out momma tiger, and give him some possible reasons why bs may not have been interested in taking his calls (see above) he starts in with this CS crap. My CS is 250 bucks a month. whoopee doo. he tells me he is trying to come up with the money, but may have to sell his car. (um, you posted that like 3 weeks ago idiot) BUT if he has to sell his car to pay support (all 500 bucks) he is moving to Montana. ok

I dont give a rats ass if you move to timbuktu, sell your car or your house. whatever. Move back to your hole, or go take another pill and lose a few weeks. BUT DO NOT INVOLVE OUR SON.

He states that if he is FORCED to move to MONTANA (by having to pay 500 bucks cs, I guess getting a job is not an option right) that he would expect to take bs for the summers. HAHAHAHHA. uh, no. I told him I dont think that would be a good idea. of course in my best beligerent rant "your telling me I wont see my son?" ugh. no, im telling you that you are telling me bs has been "ignoring" you, but yet you didnt even know it was your weekend, and that Im not sending my child with you for a whole summer when he clearly has some issues with even talking to you at the moment.

I say maybe a week or two (as ordered in CO, 2 weeks every summer, which BD has never utilized before) but im not thinking a whole summer. So he wanted bs back on the phone. Ok.

After 20 min of bs looking at me like he was not sure what to say, and obvioulsy messed up on alcohol or pills bd was going on and onm the conversation ended. REALLY? ugh.

soooooooo...then my other drama continues with SO and his sons unexpected visit, and canceling of monster truck show and the suprise that SO has to work today. We are arguing now, because SO haas horrible time management skills and cannot estimate the amount of time a simple task takes. he left @ 8am to pick up ss and work on truck rotors and go to work. Uh huh. 4 hours later, his ass is just now heading to work (someone elses fault of course) and has no idea when or how long it will take him, so bascially any plans or dinner or ANYTHING that we thought we would be doing is shot. And now hes mad at me, for me being mad, that I CANNOT plan a single fing thing with him and count on it to happen because he is a damn moron. he says he is sorry that things dont always go the way I want. Seriously? I just wanted an aprroximate time, so I could make some plans, but he cant even do that right.

Im just over it. And then I come on here, and see all the crap here, and Im over that too. I need a damn vacation but thanks to the new tax crap, I will barely have enough to go camping.

sorry for the vent. Im just apparently out of patience and need to stop reading s-talk posts for awhile. "Please dont attack me, Im so fragile right now", and just cant handle a different perspective...HAHAHAHAH LMAO. good lord i need a drink. I cant help but think of some of our fellow step talkers as soon to be victim BMs causing loads of drama for future SM. Blagh!

I truely hope everyone has a better day than me!