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O/T-- I can't get motivated

overworkedmom's picture

I was doing ok this morning at work and then I had to go to a stupid co-parent counseling thing with my ExH. You would think after 2 years he would be over our split. BUT NOOOO... He cried and wined and played such a victim. He was verbally and emotionally abusive to me for years. It was an awful marriage, and I finally ended it. Now that he doesn't have control over my every move he is just a nasty and malicious person all around. He has figured out that if he makes me look evil to everyone else than that makes him look like a saint. At least our parenting counselor doesn't fall for it, she has seen too much of the stuff I document.

Anyway, after listening to him playing victim for an hour, I just don't feel like working. I just want to go shopping... have a drink ... or 6. Thank God that I have my FDH. He might be an ass sometimes but at least I always know what is going on. Nothing sneaky or underhanded. He just is himself. And Thank God that I bought that bottle of wine yesterday, at least I have something to look forward to tonight.

The end.

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Wolfey's picture

Some people are masters at draining the energy of others.Sounds like your ex could teach a class on doing it;-)

That glass of wine sounds awesome.This day is dragging!