Well ExH had time to calm down after losing his mind because I was on a ‘date’. This is why I was using Tinder and seeing guys who weren’t local. I thought he might try some crap.

Last Wednesday, I had to stop at his shop to get a paper from him. He was very nice to me and said he talked to his friend - who also happens to be a friend of my date - and friend told him to back off. Friend said date is a nice guy and I could do a lot worse.

Soooo, it’s been a week of online fun and quite interesting.

My sisters and nieces made it a family project to help me date online. My niece suggested Tinder. I went on it and created a profile not knowing it was a hookup site!!! She is not my friend anymore.

But, I made a killer profile and my tinder is blowing up. I wrote:

I love to hold hands with my boyfriend and take long, romantic walks on the beach . . . Until the alcohol wears off and I realize I’m dragging a stolen mannequin around a Wal-Mart parking lot

Poor ExH is really desperate these days.

After screaming at me because I reported he no longer lives with me. We had low cost insurance but since we aren’t together anymore, he no longer qualifies. He was notified 30 days before his insurance ran out but only looked at a new policy at the 11th hour. He was shocked at the cost and it’s my fault, of course. First time he has had insurance is the time he was with me so he’s gotten a free ride until now.

I always used to laugh by the advice to disengage because ‘what would they do if you weren’t around’? They DO figure it out!

STBXH has his kids this weekend and, surprise, surprise (!): he had to parent himself! He actually took his kids with him to his job sites on Saturday since he decided he wanted to work. He also had to stay home on sunday instead of doing his own thing like he always does. I guess I DID provide some usefulness to him because now he has to be a real parent instead of a dumping parent.