I don't share my phone number with my husbands family. Only one person has it (my SS) and he knows that I don't want other family members to have it. I trust him not to give it out. DH family is high drama and I don't get involved.

Yesterday I went to go visit my friends parents. It was like going to a blast from the past. This is the same home my friend grew up in. I told my friend she was so lucky to still have her childhood home. Not sure she really gets it. She has been able to live there and visit thru out her whole life. When I got home I started thinking about how much I would love to just walk thru the home I grew up in. See my old bedroom. The basement where I did things I should not have done. }:) It would mean so much to me. Do your parents still live in your childhood home?

For weeks now everyday more and more woman are coming out with their stories about sexual harassment. It is shocking to me how many men got away with this for so long. Woman lost jobs for speaking out against them. Woman lost their self esteem while holding on to jobs they needed. My hope is that this is a real turning point for woman. What do you think? Am I being to optimistic.

Well he is doing great and seems to be back to his normal self. Thankfully. I did encourage him to stick with it and so far he is doing great. But here is the problem. He now wants his new wife to try to quit and she is not having it. That is his problem not mine. But she is telling our friends that if my husband and I didn't encourage him to quit he wouldn't want her to quit. All we did was support him when he said he wanted to do this. We didn't make him stop smoking. She has been posting things on Facebook about how mad she is at me and my husband that we supported him.