She May be the Mother but I will always be MOM

Im I in a unique situation? Im not sure. BioMother has gone long periods of times with no contact and when she does, police, cps somehow always get involved. I do know my sds bio mother is exactly that her mother. However Iam in her mom.

I found this online and thought some of you might relate:

Mother or MOM

There was a time when Mother & Mom
meant the same person. In our ‘modern’ society,
this is not always true.

Today, Mom is not always the same person as Mother. What distinguishes the difference between these two titles?

Mother is the person who gives life to a child.
Mom is the person who gives her life to the raising of a child. A person who willingly accepts the burdens, responsibilities, heart breaks, and joys of raising a child.

In comparison to being a Mom, it takes very little to be a Mother. It takes only nine months to become a mother. On the other hand, to be a Mom takes a life commitment to hard work, worry, and the giving of one’s self for the good of a child. Mom shares a child’s joys, worries, fears, successes, and disappointments. Mom often has to give up parts of her own dreams, needs, and wants, for the welfare of the child she is raising. She does this out of love for the child.