I found this site while searching for help with my 14 year old soon to be step-son. My fiance and I have been dating for almost 5 years, and her son and I have never really had a close relationship like a lot of the ones I have read about on here. I've always taken care of him and taken him out to do things and spent time with him, but I've never really felt the bond that I feel I "should" have with him.