I came here from Reddit after a Google search.

I recently learned that the wedding day that I'd planned for and already finalized almost everything for, conflicts with my stepson's college graduation 6 hours away so it can't happen. My family overseas can only travel over here that week. My mother and grandmother are more flexible.

Since I have to have the legal wedding happen in the United States, and my mother and grandmother begged to have the first big celebration happen with the family, I now have to have 3 weddings.