I cant believe I found a place where others can vent about their lives with their SO's and steps!!! I have been married to a wonderful man 5 years and I love him dearly but...he does not know how to parent at all! His daughter is 6 and both him and BM do EVERYTHING for her. She cant and wont do anything for herself because they cater to her every need. She is 6 and cant even feed herself properly or go to the bathroom properly! Yes she is 6 and she STILL has "accidents" because she wont take the time to go when she has the urge to go.