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sammmx's picture

Submitted by sammmx on Thu, 08/16/2012 - 8:47am

So school starts soon and over the summer SS9 has come to live with us full time as BM lost custody. I told BF we need to call the school so they know he's living with us, give them our information etc. He told me not to worry about it because "Mom will likely be as involved with that as she can." and yes, he called her Mom in talking to me. What the frig. I'm calling anyway, that just gives them an excuse to talk more and her to try and do something shes not supposed to be doing. Annoying.

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PeanutandSons's picture

Submitted by PeanutandSons on Thu, 08/16/2012 - 9:09am

The school needs to know who has custody of the child and what the custody arraingment is. You say she lost custody, so I assume there is a limited visitation schedule.

That's just lazy ass parenting to say that he's going to let bm handle it all and pass along info. She's obviously unfit if sheblost custody. He needs to step up as a father and get his name in with the school.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Thu, 08/16/2012 - 9:36am

This guy has shown you over and over that he doesn't want to parent his kids.

I bet anything your address will be on all the forms, but your name won't be there. These two losers are going set things up to look like they are an intact family. However, when the time comes to dish out money (pictures, candy sales, lunch...) they will expect you to step in and help.