Well let's see, SS9 has been living with us for probably 2? Maybe 3? Weeks now. Not entirely sure. But it hasn't been all bad, he's actually a pretty good kid. So far. He always does what I tell him to, eats all his meals without protest, goes to bed when asks, etc. And he helps keep SS2 occupied for the most part. That being said, the two of them do fight and instigate and that's a pain in the ass, but I digress... SS9 is at his bio-dad's gramma's cottage for the week and I've just started my first full week of 9-5 shifts so it's been REALLY nice to get away from everyone/everything and just do my own thing.

BF had to send SS2 on his visit with BM today and I told him straight out, "If that woman steps foot in my house again I will be stepping OUT." To which, of course, he assured me up and down would not be happening ever again. So of course, BM shows up with this confused look on her face, batts her eyelashs at BF and says, "The caseworker told me I could take SS2 for a sleep over tonight! Isn't that great?" HA. The caseworker NEVER called us to inform us of such a plan, and she hasn't even finished her 6-weeks of drug-testing yet to even get full DAY visits, let alone overnights. So BF calls me at work to ask what I think (seriously? Use your head). So I tell him straight up, CAS said no so if you want my opinion then no. His response? "Well, yeah, obviously, I was just making sure you didn't want him gone for the night or anything." Uhhhh. Okay? What would that matter? Even if I DID, it wouldn't be for her to take him against CAS guidelines!

If it were up to me, she wouldn't have even got to see SS2 today, because her mom took SS2 and SS9 to a barbeque on Sunday which we were informed that BM would NOT be at. Turns out she was, so she already got to see both kids this week. Plus BF and I both had to work today but he BOOKED OFF WORK just so he would be home to deliver SS2 to her. Uh, really? She saw them Sunday. She's supposed to see them once a week ... ... ... whatever. I will never, Never, NEVER understand why there are so many people in this woman's life who place her upon this pedastol with a golden crown and grovel at her feet, fulfil her ever wish, desire and demand. Sigh.

SS2 has been driving me crazy ever since he's started having more and more time with his BM. Every word that comes out of his mouth is "Mom this", "My mom that", "At my mom's house this"... The one day he was pissing me off so bad I was like, "SS2! You were not at your mom's house, you were at your uncle's house, your mom doesn't have a house." He's started being so whiney and grumpy and disobedient all the time. He refuses to do anything I say, if I try and talk to him about something he'll ignore me. If I tell him not to do something or scold him he starts bawling his eyes out like I just ripped his toe off. If I come into a room he'll run away and hide. I don't know WTF his deal is but I'm really starting to get irritated with it. For now I just have been ignoring him unless he's hurting my animals, doing something dangerous or talks to me directly. Such bullshit.

And BF is, well... BF. Ugh. Thank god I atleast have a job now and an excuse to get the hell out of my house and live my own life!