To recap: ss23 whom was living off of us was told to move out 6 weeks ago by dh. For the last month we haven't heard from him (and I was happy lol). Dh's birthday was Thursday and all the other Kids either called or came by to wish DH a happy birthday, all that is except for ss23. Bd19 called yesterday to see if the skid called (after all this IS his father and after all he financially drained us for 9 months and damned near caused our divorce) and when I told her no be hadn't she actually said she has serious doubts that ss23 came from the same genepool as her father lmao anyway the phone rang this am and it was bd19 calling from ss23's place of employment where he works so hard (15hrs a week) and forced him to talk to dh. Wouldn't you know it, the weasel pulled out every lie and excuse why he hasn't called or come to see his father. I expected it and actually said I told you so. I think out daughter is right. Can't be the same DNA.