I'm new here, but I have a BF with three kids, all boys ages 13, 11, and 8. We have been together for almost 4 years, living together for 2. The kids are with us half-time, as BF and BM have a 50-50 split. Now, I generally don't like kids, which is why I quit teaching, but his are really very sweet and seem to like me. But they are incapable of completing even the simplest of tasks without constant supervision. They are the most dependent kids I have ever encountered.