So this Wednesday (last day of school for SD13), DH picks her up from school and takes her to her counseling appointment (the day was changed so BM could take and surprise, she backed out!).

DH picks her up and tries to engage SD in conversation during the drive, asking her about the last day of school and did she get phone numbers and emails for her friends here, where we live?

SD13 turned very negative, starting listing her friends and why she now hates them and she's glad she's never going back to that school. It's a good thing I wasn't in the car with them, because I would have said "Hey you little back stabber, they're probably doubly glad you're not either!". But DH is a great guy and only asked her, "then who are going to hang out out with when you visit us?" No answer from the kid.

SD's counselor had contacted my DH earlier and explained she's going to not check in with him before the appointment like usual, but would instead start emailing or calling him afterwards to follow up on SD's appointments. Okay...no problem.

So SD13 goes into her appointment and DH waits in the lobby for her. Afer the appointment, the counselor comes out with SD and asks DH if she could speak with him in private. She explained to DH that SD was uncooperative during her session, and it's very disturbing how much she's changed after living with BM for only a week (see blog from the other day). SD made it clear she didn't want to be there or speak to the counelor, she also said it was very obvious SD had been coached by BM before her session.

The counselor told DH she would contact BM and ask her to bring SD13 for a final session. Then she will write a letter to the judge, DH, BM and SD's attorney, letting them all know she is terminating her relationship with SD13. But is still recommending BM find a counselor in the city they live in and BM should continue to take SD to weekly or biweekly sessions.

DH told her you realize, BM is never going to do that. The counselor said she will if the judge orders it, and DH said....seriously.....when has BM ever followed a court order???