My husband bends over backwards to help out with his son and daughter with his first wife. Lately, it has gotten to the point where the ex does not take any accountability for her actions or any real responsibility for her kids. Last weekend was supposed to be her weekend, but my husband took his daughter to a church lock-in on Sat. night. Then, he took her back to her Mom's on Sat. around Noon and bought her lunch on the way over there. Then, he got a call within an hour of dropping his daughter off at her Mom's bcs they were in an argument.