I've been trying to figure out the disconnect.  The fixation on his past life, his kids fixation on their past life with their parents together.  But many times it's not even them together...it's him and his kids alone.  I overheard him talking to an old friend tonight at a social event...and my husband is saying, "she just filed for divorce, bam, out of the blue, no warning"

this is what he's telling his friend.  Like, seriously...wtf are you talking about that for?  We've been married going on 6 years and you're still talking about this???  
omg! I wanted to get in my car and drive over some people.

like why am I putting all this effort forth and you're acting like a pussy, wondering why your ex filed for divorce?  Seriously?  Fu, man!  You shouldn't even be thinking bought that?  You're living in the past man.  You've got a good woman in front of you who loves you and you're talking about that shit at a social function?  
I'm now, he's friend brought it up, but still...tell me if I'm wrong, but he should've said...fuck that old bitch, she didn't wanna be married to me anymore, so good ride a.  I've got me a beautiful woman who loves me and I'm happy.

am I wrong?  Isn't that what he should have said?  Not instead go into this conversation about how he didn't see the divorce coming and all that shit???

you're remarried now!  That shit is over.  Done.  
please, I neee to know if I'm too mad.