My dh has custody of 12daughter. Ex was preg with another child but was cheating on him. Found out 4 yrs ago the child is my hubs. Ex left SD at age 3 didn't come back around until we moved in together. Then after visiting for about 6 months finally brought child two around...finally we got wind that child two was his and ex quickly moved states. Now sd12 is having issues w abandonment and is being a holy terror.