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Am I selfish or just out of my mind.....

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Submitted by smiles gone on Sat, 06/25/2011 - 2:31am

Referring to my previous blog. My dh seems to treat me as less important when his daughter is around. He was arguing with me one day about the sd helping out our business... He said, very loudly (enough for her to hear), that the reason I don't want her helping at the store is because im jealouse of him spending time with her. Then not long after that problems started getting worse.

Anxious and feeling resentful

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Submitted by smiles gone on Wed, 06/22/2011 - 10:38am

I am 33 yr old bm of 1 boy, just turned 5, my dh and I have been married 3 yrs in september. He has a daughter, 12, whom lives with us.
My blogs before were to try and get an idea on how to deal with the sd attitude, not doing what she is asked, always wanting something etc. She has been at her bm's for 3 weeks and I dont miss her at all. I know if it was my son I would be missing him terribly.

Not missing Sd at all, kind of nice...

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Submitted by smiles gone on Mon, 05/30/2011 - 9:49am

Oh, so quiet... SD12 went to spend the summer with her BM. It has been a week already, but I dont miss her at all. None if the tension that was here for months at a time. Enjoying the time with my DH, trying not to let petty things ruin the binding time. Agreed to allow my ex to have my BS5, one more night during the week over the summer, we live in the same town, hoping that will give us more time. BS5, sees his BD on weekends, so he will be gone friday, sat and Sunday nights, maybe.

Shoud Sd12 be able to do extra..... Need suggestions

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Submitted by smiles gone on Mon, 05/23/2011 - 9:17pm

Hi gals! I'm in desperate need of advice. My sd12 who has ben giving me absolutely, positively a hard time since Christmas. Only following rules for a little but after she is lectured about the rules. Then she is back to being lazy, not listening, doing only what she wants even though I know what she is doing...she is getting ready to go to her bm for the summer.
The question I need help with is whether she gets out to do the activities that she ask.. She wants to go out for cheerleading but I don't think she deserves it...

Summer and guilt....

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Submitted by smiles gone on Sun, 05/22/2011 - 4:01pm

I have posted before, but erased them as my hd takes my phone every once in a while, didn't want him logging in and then war would start again.
I am Bm of a 5 yr old boy, stepmom to 12yr old girl. Been married 2 times, first time 13yrs, my son was born. Got divorced, remarried, have been married almost 3 yrs.