Last night I was so angry at DH. He who after we had dinner in town with MIL to which he didn't say much to me all dinner like usual, thankfully I had MIL to talk to, comes home immediately goes on the computer the 3 older kids go play and the baby plays nearby me in the living room. Then he switch to going over and playing a damn video game he's been obsessing over. so i go on the computer he's constantly calling me in to the room to help with a kid or something wouldn't get off his ass. so then when i go up to finish the laundry every 5 minutes hes calling me still for something. i told him to deal with it as im the only one to do the laundry EVER. then i go upstairs to bed at 10pm the older 3 kids already in bed, he told me to take the baby but i told him to take him as he never does much for the baby. so he comes up an hour later and i think the baby's been teething so the baby starts crying when he laid him down which frustrated him to the point he starts screaming its midnight by now. So he starts ranting about how i shouldn't be letting him nap during the day, the baby is 10 months old BTW and only takes 2 1 hour naps a day, and that I hold him too much and that's why hes crying... i took the baby then all the while thinking WTF i don't hold him all day most of the day hes crawling around or climbing on something barely being held he moves to much to sit still. this crying bit has been the past couple days so I'm pretty sure its teething he only has 2 teeth so far. I'm there 90% of the time with all the kids, even when he's home im the one doing all the work with them. I'm the one that holds to the discipline not him. i held both ss8 and bd5 in the corner longer than their time last night b/c they weren't staying in the corner for the time out. but i got complaints about ss8 being in corner longer than BD5 but they stay in for the minutes of there age. bd5 stayed in for 8 mins that's 3 mins longer, ss8 was in for 11 min again 3 mins longer. i was the one trying to get a homework thing going but ss8 and ss6 refuse to really work and DH never tries or helps me work with them much, so i stopped trying with them. he doesn't do it anyways but then wonders why the boys are behind. he constantly walks on eggshells afraid of what BM might say but we have the primary custody even again this weekend she has chosen not to take the kids. no excuse just said she's not coming. oh well. but he thinks he knows so much about parenting but im the one doing all the work and even ss8 feels more comfortable to come to me with his problems than his own dad. im sorry but i think that says it right there. if i need your damn advice i'll ask for it. otherwise shut your mouth turn and walk away!