New here!... issue#1. Been dating my boyfriend for 4.5 years. His divorce is finally over this month. However, BM does not want her daughter (12) to spend anytime with me (dad's girlfriend) until the final divorce papers arrive. He feels that he must do what she says or else she could make the situation more difficult. It upsets me that he is willing to cater to her feelings rather than mine. He says to give it another 2 months before introducing me to his daughter...regardless of how the BM likes it or not.