Just got the new issue of Oprah. In Dr. Phil's column, a letter was submitted by the 2nd wife about the SD who does not acknowledge her...very interesting answer. SD did not include 2nd wife on her wedding invitation...Dr. Phil said husband should stand up to SD & make her respect SM & the marriage. SD doesn't have to like SM, but needs to respect her..put the responsibility on DAD!!! Glad to hear it!!! Even provides a script to d/w husband. Good read!