Being ignored
I tried to talk to my dh about my sd13s huge ch,anges in behavior from when anyone else is around, to when it is just the two of us. He said it is normal kid behavior....maybe. But I think it's more. She ignores me completely when it's the two f us, even if I am talking directly to her. But if there is anyone else around, she pretends I'm the mother she always wanted. I think it's part of her manipulation. After she was hospitalized she sat me down and apologized for all her ugly behavior. The a few hours later when I told her a friend couldn't stay the night because we had to get up early, she threatened to hit me, tried to run out the door, and was trying to hurt herself by threatening to hit the wall. I physically had to restrainer her from hitting me and the wall and carry her back inside. When she told my dh the story I was the bad guy and she was just kidding because she was angry (bat eye lashes, push on inside of eye so teases come). It's all manipulation, and the therapist and counselor seem to nly be helping her learn what is the more socially acceptable answer. I feel like I am the only one who sees through this monster!!!
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She has a therapist and a
She has a therapist and a counselor, they done help, she manipulates them. I'm very wary of her, never relaxed around her. I search her room, because the counselor at the mental hospital told us to (even though I have been doing this for 2years already), and just get more disturbed by pictures and writings I find. She's on meds. I think she is dangerous. We had talked about having a baby, but I refuse as long as she is so out of control and violent.
Thanks for understanding, I
Thanks for understanding, I was beginning to think. Was crazy!
Sure, it's normal, if you are
Sure, it's normal, if you are a scitzo.
Hahaha on the $10...I read
Hahaha on the $10...I read that last night. She's actually pretty lazy, I offered her and her friend $50 to clean my o,d apatment when I moved out and they refused! At her ae I would have jumped at it!!
Seems to be a lot of problem
Seems to be a lot of problem with skid ignoring stepmoms. I would have paid to have that problem when SS lived with us.
Typical 5 minute convo with my SS….
Me: Hello
SS: Hi Willow, look at my hair, I just got it cut, look at my shoes, I paid $150.00 for them. Do you think I should dye my hair? I did 20 push ups today. I bought a game it is called blabla and it cost $50.00. does this shirt look good on me? A girl at school said it brought out the color of my eyes.
ME: Cool.
Then I would try to find a place to hide so he would shut up. lol
I think ignoring the stepmom
I think ignoring the stepmom is in the stepkid handbook!
If dad isnt around, I'd be lucky if they would call an ambulance if I had a heart attack.
More likely: look at each other, shrug, and turn back to video games while I writhe on the ground clutching my chest.
Willow, that's how she is if
Willow, that's how she is if others are around, stepcop looks just like me, everyone says so, I painted my toes, pretty huh?, do you think my boobs have gotten bigger, my hair is so soft....then whoever is gone, death stare and walks away...my jaw remains on the floor from the tornado I can't even begin to address because I just want to slam her head into the able and scream "why cant you act normal" when I was you age I would have killed to have your life and you boo how about how sad and misunderstood you are, well I have your number eom kid, get the fuck be it!!!!"
Wow autocorrect, um...*table,
Wow autocorrect, um...*table, emo, over it....sorry, I really am educated and can speak and spell well.