Should I be surprised? Nah...but really this is low. I don't blog often, just when it gets too much. Sd13 and I had a huge come to Jesus a few weeks ago. I finally had it. Things got better for a few weeks. Bms cousin's wife, recently married died in a very tragic car accident. Sd has never met these people. She doesn't know them. She insisted on going to the funeral, despite dh trying to tell her she would have to ride with 7 people in a cramped car, people she doesn't typically get along with, for 6 hours, just to be told to stay out of the way. She kept saying she "just felt " she needed to go.
Bm told dh she didn't think it was a good idea, but tells sd it's up to her. Hmmmm trying to make dh the bad guy?? So sd goes, alterior motive undetermined at this point at the whole thing not making sense. So we hear nothing yesterday. It was nice. Today, I watched my nephew5. After he left, dh tells me that sd has gotten in trouble on the funeral trip. Apparently the reason she wanted to go so badly was so that she could contact the young man (not boy, I think he's 16 now) she ran away with last spring break when she was with bm at the beach. She snuck out to the car and called him from her uncles phone and got busted (he is blocked on her phone). She then tried to steal her grandmothers phone to call again.
I'm not looking forward to this kid coming home. She doesn't change. Such a horrible tragedy and she manipulates it to try to see a boy who the last time she saw him was being arrested for a felony!! Way to go sociopath, your futures looking bright!