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help me, BM is making threats again...
I haven't been here in quite a while...so I will give a little update...I moved out of DH's home for a bit to be closer to my university, (completely homesick and moving back)..but in that time, BM has decided that since i no longer live in the home, I am no longer in the picture, but I still see ss3 (last time I was here he was ss2!) on a regular basis as he gets very upset if he doesn't see me and likewise.
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EDIT** Someone please help ME
I don't know what to do, I am so lost.
I am twenty years old, SS2, SO22.
I just realized that I am SOOO not ready for kids, especially not for the terrible twos and being one of the many people that pours their love out to SS2 but being the only one who is punished with hitting, biting, pinching, yelling, and no affection.
I love SO22 very VERY much, he is so wonderful to me, and I do believe that he is worth it, I just don't believe that I should be so deeply invested and surrounded by this craziness....a;sjkdf
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**EDIT ** Someone Please Help ME
I don't know what to do, I am so lost.
I am twenty years old, SS2, SO22.
I just realized that I am SOOO not ready for kids, especially not for the terrible twos and being one of the many people that pours their love out to SS2 but being the only one who is punished with hitting, biting, pinching, yelling, and no affection.
I love SO22 very VERY much, he is so wonderful to me, and I do believe that he is worth it, I just don't believe that I should be so deeply invested and surrounded by this craziness....a;sjkdf
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Addition to last post!
BM also filed for 'INCOME DEDUCTION ORDER'...not exactly sure why, DH already did this..
If you didn't already know, that is where they automatically take the CS out of DH's income.
He did this about....3 months ago now?
I am so confused BM, what the heck are you doing?
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Legal stuff; please read, please advise.
Okay Steptalkers, FDH and I have been checking our court records rather frequently as of late to make sure that our attorney is doing his job...I have yet to see it, but he assures us that he is taking care of it; I certainly hope he will after the thousands spent...
In any case, while checking the 'register of actions' today, I saw that BM filed a motion for 'NTC FILING CONF INF RULE 2.420'...
Which, after a bit of research and some common sense, I found to mean 'Notice of Filing Confidential Information Rule 2.420'
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By The Way!!! I have good news (karma for BM!)
FDH and I spoke with his attorney the other day, we have been trying to get in contact with him for almost a month now, so we called to let him know that this made us feel very uncomfortable in our case, and we would really like to see more from him or else we may consider seeking new representation...I suppose this spooked him a bit, so he gave a call very soon after...
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SS2 sleeps with DH and I...every night
It doesn't bother me, in a way that I am upset or uncomfortable...However, I wonder what your thoughts are on this..? Will this cause a problem? I don't want him to sleep with us at 12! haha...and I don't want him to have issues on his own or anything....
I am very curious as to what you all think of this...
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Taxes! Can't believe BM is such a dingy person.
so...This year is DH's year to claim SS2 on his taxes. BM claimed SS2 last year...But after DH attempted to file his taxes, guess what! BM had already claimed SS2...Imagine that...
So although they have an agreement, I don't know that this was necessarily spelled out in court...So what now? Just let her continue getting everything she wants? Or can she be held in contempt for this?
argh, I am so annoyed.
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Okay, I am actually surprised with BM's delusions at this point...
Today, she wrote on her Facebook,
"Sorry to say so but "sadly" it's true. Your boyfriend cheated on, ohhhhh but I wonder with who....?"
...How sweet a message attempting the fun rhymes of Dr. Seuss
...and what do you think was the response of her friends?
'Way to go BM!'
'hahaha, when can I see you next?'
'did you tell her?!'
I'd love to say 'you wouldn't believe what's going on now...' but, I know
that there is nothing that can surprise us any longer..right?
Okay, so BM has contacted FMIL and stated that FDH is sneaking out of my bed at night and going to her (parent's) house (where she lives) to sleep with her stating "f*** (his mother, father, step-mother, me (of course, and i believe...his sister)" and that he only wants to be with her...
Also that I have sent her nasty text messages and posted weird things on my Facebook.