A couple of days ago, DH told me that BM talked to him and told him she wants more time with the kids. He said she actually told him, "Well, think about it. Talk to stepmasochist about it and see what you think." Wow. She thought of me.

We've had custody of skids for over a year now. Right now she gets them EOW - they ride the bus to her house after school Fridays and ride back to school from her house on Monday, and Thursdays overnight.

When I was picking up the skids yesterday from MIL's house where they go after school, BM drove up behind me. She said tell FH that in the next couple of days I'm going to be taking SD10 to get start the Gardasil vaccine. She said, "She's old enough to get it now and since it runs in both sides of the family I think it's a good idea."

Uh, what part of FH having sole custody does she not get? Obviously, she doesn't get the part about him having the end all, be all say on skids receiving ANY medical services.

So, the skids came back from their month of summer visitation with their mom on Sunday. During her time with them, they had soccer sign ups for the fall on two Saturdays. I asked the skids if their mom signed them up or if I needed to do it.
They said, BM told them that they filled up so skids wouldn't be able to play soccer this year. "Ya, she said they filled up by noon."
I just said, "oh really? I'll have to call about that."

This woman is such a piece of work. Lets call her "lard bat" because she's a stupid, fat, batsh!t crazy blob. Needless to say, FH loathes lard bat. Only his dislike for BM equals it. She once took oldest SD when she was just a baby and hid her from FH. And I truly believe she's the reason BM is the way she is. I mean, who lets a 14 year old girl hang out in sailor bars getting drunky with grown men returning from a six month cruise???