Maybe it's just me but I have an issue with our kids being in our room. It's fine if you've been invited or sent to go get something. Other than that there is no reason they need to sleep in our room if the other parent is away, they do not need to use any of the products in the bathroom nor our shower. They all have their own beds & rooms & a bathroom they share. I make sure I supply all of their bathroom needs. As long as they tell me what they need.