Hi all I'm new to this site. A close friend of mine suggested findin others online since I dont have many friends that are stepmoms. Anyway I've been a step mom for almost 4 years now to a 9 year old girl. My husband gets her 2 days a week and for the most part things are great! Her mom and I talk often and arnt afraid to express our feelings well for the most part. My husband and I had a falling out of course which lead to them break ing up but of course its fine because I have the love of my life.