ok, my SD who is extremely self centered and who struts around like the rest of us are below her has been very respectful. Mind you I had to spend a bunch of money on her getting her dress and shoes for our wedding. It was all about her last weekend, buying things, having fittings, everything....I was almost sick the thought of spending all this time with her because quite frankly she is a little bi*&ch 99% of the time. But to my surprise, she was wonderful asking my advice etc. My DH is bringing her home for a couple of extra days tonight and I don't want her to come. Mainly because I am soooooo scared that now that she got everything she wanted last weekend, she will go right back to the way she was and I will feel resentful and manulipulated. I will feel like an ass being "had" by a 12 year old.....can't I live in my 'she is happy about the wedding, and can't wait for us to be a huge family' bubble another week????? He just doesn't understand what he is doing.
After the way she acted at Christmas, I promised myself I would never spend my hard earned money on her until she stopped acting like a spoiled brat, it was so bad, I wanted to take all her presents from her....she acted like a 2 year old and we gave her way too much that she "expected" Now I go and do it again....
well, I guess the next couple of days will tell the tale.