Is this common?
Ok, I found out why DH is so reluctant to do anything with SD....BM. I am being told because I recently tried to get her to stop sassing, not to slam doors, etc that she does not have to "listen to me" I guess BM went off on my DH. Her BF has been in SD life for 5 years and she was told at a young age that he is not allowed to tell her what to do...is that normal? Therefore, she is allowed to treat him however she wants and he is not allowed to tell her to behave????? And that is what she expects me to do?
I can't believe that anyone would want their child to behave the way my SD does. Maybe this is all because we just got married? Does anyone else have this kind of arrangement?
Obviously, it means SD does whatever the hell she wants because DH hasn't been able to control her.
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i can't
beleive the guy has stuck around.. Wow, she has a golden pussy.. Sorry for being so frank.
Um first of all your husband / BF point blank should have said this and hung up. Its my house and I choose to run my house differently then yours.. And hung up.
And tell DH to bust his daughters ass,, that will stop her dead in her tracks..
Happy
" make sure you tell the people you love most EVERYDAY.. Its important not only for them to know but for you to tell.. Life is to short to be miserable..
NO, it's not!
DH and I made household rules (there's only 5). They are different than BM's rules. ALL the kids (bio and step) have to abide by the rules. They are not up for discussion. If DH is not there and SS breaks a rule, damn right I'm going to say something! If he takes the 'your not my mom' attitude, I tell DH when he gets home. DH ALWAYS has my back! We're a team.
BM can make the rules for her household. You and your dh can make them for yours. They don't have to be the same! #1 in our house is to be respectful to others, ESPECIALLY those in authority! (That would be you and dh)!