Ok I was thinking this morning during the 4am feeding about this and wanted to get your thoughts.

There seems to be an upswing in DHs who are disengaging from their adult bios due to all the stress & drama they bring to our lives. I also noticed that I'm not alone in watching my DH disengage with SD who is now 16 due to all the stress and PAS that is/was going.

What's really the difference? Is it that she's still under 18? So when she turns 18, it's all ok because she instantly knows what she's doing to DH is wrong?

I'm just curious about your thoughts on this.