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Two Steps Back's picture

Anyone have suggestions on, or want to vent to me about stealing? My SD steals, goes through my things, and then acts like I am the problem when called out on it. She is the most toxic, ungrateful, dark cloud I have ever encountered. I do not like having her in my house and wish she'd stop coming over.

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Winterglow's picture

Put a lock on your bedroom door and keep all your stuff in there. If DH objects tell him to see his thieving SD elsewhere. You don't have to put up with disrespect from anyone in your own home.

AgedOut's picture

locks. put locks on your bedroom and closet doors. 

 

what is Dad doing to fix this issue? 

CLove's picture

You need to call it out each and every time. After of course the locks on everything. The nanny cams for helping determine the particulars and the dates. Pop some corn and have movie night.

Feral Forger SD24 started stealing when she was in her teens, and apparently still does it.

She was caught New Years of her 17th, at a JC Pennys, and it was the 2nd time they caught her on cameras. Because she had money in her wallet, they "only" fined her 250 paid for by her parents.

Then, one day a few years later when she had been living with Toxic Troll BM, husband gets a notice from his bank of possible fraud on his account, making it necessary to talk to the bank manager to keep his account from being locked down. Turns out Feral Forger had stolen blank checks from TT checkbook (remember those?) and had signed and cashed them against different bank accounts, one of them being the child account husband had set up for FF when she had a job for a week, linked to his main account.

According to SD17 Powersulk she will come over to visit and TT and PS hide important stuff. 

Rags's picture

Web cams everywhere, and press charges.

Lather... rinse... repeat.

Have theiving SD video footage hour with everyone every evening. Have DH and SD sitting front and center, hit pause when SD is stealing something, dial 911 on speakerhone and have her ass arrested with daddy watching.

Have fun.

I would.