so i'll admit it. i am currently disengaging and have been for the past 2 years. it's fabulous so with that said, i just do not understand why bm constantly blames me for dh's relationship with his children.

she has called me in the past and asked if i would speak to dh about giving her some money to buy the kids a or b and i did, the first couple of times, but then i started getting annoyed with her and how she would always call to ask for more more more. and to top it off, would start all kinds of drama and put me in the middle. so one day she called to ask for a favor, and i told her no, dont call me anymore, i am not the biodad! you need something, call their dad, i do not want to get in you guys drama. period. disengagin began.

fast forward to last friday, it was dh's weekend. dh is laid off currently and i was fully expecting to see the skids when i returned from work. they werent there. so i asked where they were. he replied they were going to the skating rink and he would get them in the morning since the skating rink closed @ 11 p.m. whatever, your kids. i went on about my business.

saturday morning, wake up to a txt war with dh and bm because she wanted him to get the kids. i dont fault her for that it was his weekend BUT again not my business....so he hands me the phone to read one of her txt and it reads:

so is it you or tx that doesnt want you to get the kids when you are supposed too?

idk it just really pissed me off because i stay out of their drama but that skank is always dragging me back in. i will have some choice words for her the next time i see her }:)

to be honest i dont care when he gets his kids. only if it is interrupting something we have planned. i dont complain when it's his weekend never have never will, and i damn sure dont complain when he dont get them. his kids, his choice.