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i totally lost it this morning, really flipped my wig...and i feel awful

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Submitted by txcajunmom on Wed, 04/27/2011 - 10:31am

i am under so much stress with moving into a new home (yay!) and working full time and two babies 1 and 3. not to mention ss6 and ss10 and their crazy mother...and last but not least dh who is the most irresponsible person on this earth. he has once again been fired so i am struggling financially oh and he got a dwi a coupole of months ago along with a ticket for suspended license and open container. needless to say i am not happy in my relationship. i have been one to say i stay because of the kids, my babies adore him although i feel he always puts them second to his children with bm.

in need of advice kind of quickly...

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Submitted by txcajunmom on Tue, 04/19/2011 - 3:12pm

so short version...me and bm DO NOT get along. i have tried to be civil becuase of the skids but she makes it impossible. we have had too much history of arguments and i just can't stand her. besides that, she's an awful mother, had her children removed from her twice and always trying to drop them off on someone...anywho, dh attends all of ss10 baseball games. dh brings dd3 with him to the games and i stay home with ds1. i was always told bm either never attends or if she does, they do not sit together.

i really need to vent right now...before i loose it!

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Submitted by txcajunmom on Fri, 03/18/2011 - 4:59pm

long story short, me and dh (i use that term lightly) honestly jumped into our relationship way to fast. i was young and all about partying and having a good time and he was getting out of his relationship with bm and the children were in custody of the state at the time which he kept from me for a few months and then later dropped the bomb that the youngest one was not his and he was planning on being his dad blah blah blah. by that time i was preg with our daughter. it was really dumb but it is what it is. i completely turned into a maw maw and live for my children.

bm needs to "apologize" to dh for the past - as per her recovery...

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Submitted by txcajunmom on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 1:22pm

so bipolar bm texted dh a couple of days ago stating that she was at a point in her recover where she needs to make amends and needed to apologize to dh for her past behaviour. i'm sorry i think its just another way for her to try the poor pittiful me act. she has on numerous occasions tried to beg dh to leave me and go back to her and when he turned her down, she turns into mega biatch. anywho i found it quite funny when she called him today to see if they could talk face to face so that she could apologize to him, his response: go to a priest and confess if it makes you feel better.

dont think i am buying skids easter baskets this year...is that wrong? got the idea from another post btw

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Submitted by txcajunmom on Tue, 03/08/2011 - 3:56pm

so in reading another post, i came to the realization that i dont want to buy the skids easter baskets. especially the little one who is extrememly ungrateful! and everything i have ever bought for ss10 he looked at it for 2 seconds and moved on and never played with it again. i buy my babies a basket every year with candy, little toys like side walk chald and bubbles and a bathing suit (a tradition from my mom). i have for the past 4 years bought skids a basket too, minus the bathing suit. but why should i?

ungrateful skid...is this just normal behaviour or does it just make me more mad becuase he's not "mine"

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Submitted by txcajunmom on Tue, 03/08/2011 - 1:16pm

so last weekend was dh's weekend and we took all the kids, the 2 skids and our 2 babies to the mardi gras. we ate lunch before we got there, listened to some music, everyone got a snack and something to drink while we were there, watched a parade, went to a petting zoo, and let the kids ride rides. dh got laid off a couple of weeks ago and times are really hard to say the least and i'm struggling to make ends meet but we wanted to take the kids to do something fun. the whole thing costs about 100 dollars and we really didnt have it but we'll sacrifice a few things and it'll work out.

Bm's using CS as a paycheck other than what it is truely meant for, a supplement to her income i.e. support...

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Submitted by txcajunmom on Fri, 02/25/2011 - 3:05pm

So we, or should i say i have been dealing with this issue for as long as i've been with dh because it doesn't seem to bother him in the least. saw this on the earlier post "my 'favorite' quotes" and it really struck a cord with me.

bm does not work. has 3 children with 3 different men however dh has claimed responsibility for her son since his bio is in prision and they were together from birth to 6 months.

just needing to vent...

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Submitted by txcajunmom on Thu, 10/21/2010 - 1:13pm

So as you may know from my older posts, dh has had temporary custody of ss9 and "ss"6 (not his bio) for the past 2 months. "ss"6 has add/adhd and some real mental issues. he is a handful. i have my hands full as it is with our dd3 (wild child) and ds7months, i work full time and the only one to cook or clean in the house. i am just about to loose my mind. bm should be getting out of rehab sometime this week and cps placed her daughter who is 2 in her custody at the rehab so i think she was told that she would be able to get the boys back when she is released.

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