Hi there! So I'm new to this site. Was told about this site by a friend of mine. Heard it's a place to vent, and get advice and tips, and to know I'm not alone. My SS is almost 15 and recently got in trouble for having bad grades, and now doesn't want to come to our house. His mom isn't backing up my DH. My DH sets rules and gives punishment, where as my ss mother doesn't. So of course ss doesn't want to come over anymore. I'm kind of happy but sad cause my dh is upset about it. I love the kid, I like the kid but if he never came over again I wouldn't mind one bit.