I have been wandering on this site a while and I finally created a account. I tried to make myself feel better by reading the horror stories of others, sick I know. But that is my life now. I am just so miserable because of my SS. He is 14 and I have been with his father for 2 years. He has been divorced 3 years. I have my own daughter who is 10 and we have a son together who is a year old. The Bm in my situation had custody of SS but the day before our honeymoon she dumps SS on us and goes to Mexico with her boyfriend, or she says.