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The backlash begins :(

winnie's picture

After telling SS about the CPS threat his mother made, SS immediately called up CPS to tell them about it. He said he spoke to someone and they kept it on record that the cow made a threat. He is going to file a RO on his mother. Can you imagine the crapstorm that will create? We are doing the same. Anyone know how long it normally takes? Of course, SS has become ice cold with us again. He said we should stop seeing each other weekends for a while. And he said this through a voicemail. My husband tried calling but SS is not picking up. I hate this. SS always transfers blame on his father for the evil woman's doings. I will not be seeing my granddaughter for who knows how long Sad

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aggravated1's picture

Your SS is an ass for playing the keep away game with his daughter. Honestly? he can't be as mature and intelligent as you say, or he would put a little thought into 1)the repercussions of yanking people in and out of his daughter's life and 2) the hurt and pain he is causing others by acting this way.

aggravated1's picture

no, I wouldn't. They aren't his bio mom, they aren't treating him badly, and they shouldn't be treated this way.
He is using his kid as a weapon.

winnie's picture

SS has serious trust issues. He needs therapy. I know it. But he will not listen. I feel horrible about it. I wish he knew how badly we felt. But I do not want to guilt him into coming to see us. His mother spent his whole life guilting him. I cannot do that to him. Luckily my granddaughter only cares if she has her father. She did not get attached to my husband and I that much. Not to say she does not like us around. I just wish SS could see how we are hurting.

winnie's picture

I hope so too Sad I do not know if I can even blame SS at this point. He just wants to leave everyone behind. He has serious trust issues. I am glad SS does not use these tactics to get money or something else out of us. But it still hurts us nonetheless.

winnie's picture

You are right StepAside. He wants us around. We are all he has for family. He just is not able to trust us. The father's day idea is great. We were supposed to visit him this weekend for Father's day. But he cancelled. Still no word from him. Sad