Just a little history....... The BF3 and I started dating 13 days after the birth of SS15mths. BM has three children to three different fathers. BF1 has just re entered the scene and only has one monthly visits with all three children for about six hours. His daughter is 8. BF2 is not on the scene at all as it was a one night stand and daughter has two who is 31/2 calls BF1 dad cause her sister does. BF3 has been in the BM life as a friend since BM daughter8 was 18 months old the started dating and as soon as she found out she was pregnant again kicked him to the kerb......