I hate bm
I think its hillarious and a little annoying that she is so jealous of me, but I still hate her.
My DH told her when they were married that he would never have another child with her because she is not a good parent to the one that they had. A couple of years later they divorced, and he and I got together shortly after that. We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter (she always wanted a girl). I take care of everything the kids need, get them to school on time, make sure they look good and take care of them when they are sick. I also take care of homework.
So BM gets my SS back on Friday night at 7 pm, there is a homework sheet that comes home daily and must be signed and returned. I helped him with his homework and signed the sheet saying that I had seen his homework and it was finished and put it back in his backpack. (My husband told the teacher that I would be doing this and it is okay with him).
At 7:15 on Monday morning, she (BM) calls DH griping and whining that I should never be allowed to sign anything that says parent or guardian because I am not the parent, SHE should be the only one allowed to sign anything that says parent. So he calls me and says "please don't sign anything else for school" and I ask why because he said that since I help with the homework I should be the one signing the form saying that I helped with homework (Siblings can also sign the form if they are the ones who help or babysitters). He says she freaked out when she saw this morning. The dumb b*tch has had the form with my signiture on it since Friday night and before school on Monday morning she finally decided to open his backpack.
It's so stupid that she takes her jealousy out on her own son, that paper going back and forth and being signed daily is part of his grade and my DH is not home 2 nights a week.
I freakin hate her she's so stupid.
The f-ing c-word is ruining her own kids life with her stupidity but I bet she blames me.
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Keep on signing . . .
My skids and bkids have the same thing. A parent has to sign the agenda every night. So whenever I sign, it's my full name big and bold. The Wookie HATES it. Oh well. Sorry, but I am a guardian. The skids live in my house, I provide for them. I deserve that title.
My advice - let your BM freak out. Keep on helping with the homework and keep on signing that you have.
That's hilarious.
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Sign it anyway and tell your
Sign it anyway and tell your DH to stop kissing her a$$. If she helps, she can sign it. If you help, you sign it. The world does NOT cater to her, and neither should he.
"I child proofed my whole house, but they STILL get in!"
oh i will
I never said I wasn't going to stop signing it. It has to be signed and I'm the only one here to do so. The problem is that she doesn't sign it when he's at her house and then he gets points taken off for it not being signed. She is jealous that I am a better parent to her child than she is.
I think DH will agree with me (when he's awake and not on his way to work as he was this morning) that since the paper has to be signed and he's not here to do it that I should sign it. I asked the teacher and she has no problem with this.
I refuse to punish the child because he was born to an idiot mother, it's not his fault and he needs to be given every chance I can give him to be successful in life, if it was up to her he would end up flipping burgers for the rest of his life.
Another Jealous BM!
Yeah she's jealous! Wow, it never ceases to amaze me the lengths that some BM's go through -- come on !! A signature?? She's having a hussyfit over a signature??? What a dumb broad! She better be grateful that you even take the time to help out with homework! Keep signing that planner/daily agenda girl... and next time, add a little smiley face! Ha!!
"Sometimes it's best to forget what you want and remember what you deserve."
Good idea
I always make sure I sign my last name (my DHs last name) a little bigger just to get the point across.
Yeah that's what I thought too, a fit about a signature come on gimme a break here, at least it got signed when he was at my house.
ex's bm pulled the same....
My ex-dh's ex tried the same thing.... she would freak if I signed the homework agenda or field trip forms (although she didn't mind me signing the check to pay for the field trip).... I told ex-dh that if he was going to allow her to dictate whether or not I could sign the freaking form when I was the one completing the homework with the skids then I wasn't going to help with homwork anymore....that lasted about 2 days.... CLEARLY bm is jealous of you, just ignore her.... she can get over it!
Same exact thing!
I always check their homework, and now even if their mom says she has checked it they will still want me to check it because one day SD8 had some math and I checked it for her. She had 11 wrong on one page and when I called her inside to show her this, she explained to me that her mother had checked it the night before and didn't find any wrong. Now we're talking simple addition here and I don't think the BM is that dumb, but she is definitely lazy and she would have told her child she checked it when she didn't. But I still had fun telling BM at the next softball game all about it. (that's when we were still on speaking terms.) She admitted to me that she didn't check it.
Also, she did not want me signing anything, but when it came to fill out the kids emergency medical forms this year and on the 4th day, she still had not filled them out, we went up to the school and got new ones and filled them out ourselves. We didn't leave her off of them of course, but we made sure that I was also listed as a contact and a person allowed to pick the girls up. Oh - and the girls also wanted me to sign up to be a room mom. The BM went ballistic when the girls told her. She said that it must be nice to have a flexible job to be able to do that and that she can't because she can't take off work like everybody else. That's funny because she takes off work when she's too hungover to go in. This BM just doesn't think some things are important.
The sad thing is that all kids will one day recognize the flaws of their parents. They will always love them and defend them, but when they learn the real truth about a mother or a father who has not shown the interest they should..........well it breaks my heart to think of that, but those girls will always know that I am there for them patiently (most of the time) and always consistently. And that's what they're really looking for: someone dependable, reliable, interested, and consistent.
Childish
You would think that she might be thankful that you help HER SON...
I would...