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Not Looking Forward to the Weekend...

Ani's picture

My boyfriend's son he is 12 years old and pretty much every weekend he is with us he spoils it with the way he behaves. So even with all my good ideas of fun things to do with him like craving a pumpkin, baking and decorating Halloween cookies with him....he will act up when ever he is told not to do something or to do something as simple as take a shower, pick your room, brush your teeth or do you homework. So my weekend from hell starts today after school.....Help!!!

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ChaiLatte's picture

On the bright side, he'll only be there for the weekend. Is it possible for you to do the activities with him that two of you enjoy like the cookies and pumpkin carving and leave the reprimanding to DH?

Ani's picture

I forgot to say that he comes home all day wed. ontill thur. morning that his dad takes him to school. His dad reprimands him and that when is all starts going down....and he does need reprimanding since he doesn't obey any house rules. I wanted to thank you for caring I'mnew here and at this step mom thing.

passleft's picture

Been there...at least it seems like you have a fairly normal schedule...I never know when my SD is going to show up...just whenever she calls or feels like it. I'm sorry for you. Smile

Ani's picture

Thanks for caring. I'm new to all this step mom stuff. Yes I tent to think it better to know when he is coming but on top of this he comes extra days since she ask my BF to take him so she can do this or that. So it's so hard on me to have him with us and deal with his behavior problems and all the crying and screaming too. Hugs Ani

Ani's picture

Thanks it's good for me to vent and I thank you for caring about my problems. I wanted to let you know that you have a friend here too. Hugs Ani