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Kids free weekend.....WONDERFUL

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This weekend went so WONDERFUL......skid free all week! Went to the movies( no fights about what skid wanted to see ), dinner at a romantic place( no drama about skid not liking the place we pick),relax by the pool(no skid bugging us to do what he wants),went for a walk(no skid giving us a bad time for not liking this)went to see friends(no skid up-set for coming with us or mad and acting out for staying behind) what a great time skid free.....do you guys enjoy your skid free times too?

Up-date on Playing it Forward....

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Here is an up-date....my sister did 4 things .....one was offer to give a ride to a mother who car won't start when my sister went to pick up her kids at school......my daughter put some change into a parking metter at her law school that was expried and she had just seen the metter cop pass by....my nurse friend took some flowers that she was given to a sick lady on the flower.....Just wanted to know if you wonderful people try playing it forward today? Or maybe you will be later today? hugs

PLAY IT FORWARD.....

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Lets do 3 nice things to 3 people today....they can be simple things......this is what I did so far.....I place a note in DH car telling him that he is special and I love him very much with a few chocolate kisses........I text my bestfriend and sister both telling them I enjoy being with them and loved them.

Who is part of this wonderful family??

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With the problems we all have each and every day .....it so nice to know we have a family here that understands us.....StepTalk is our family..........I'm so thankful to be part of this wonderful family.....you guys are the BEST!! Thanks for staying on here and helping me and each of us with our problems and sticky moments. Who is part of this wonderful family???

Who needs a HUG today?

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I wanted to share a story with you wonderful steps...........I just bump to a step mom who live in a condo a few doors down and she hug me and said "Thanks for being there when I was down" It seems that a few days ago she was crying as we went to throw away some trash together and I just went up to her and hug her and we talk for just a bit...........I don't know her that well I just know that she has two step girls because one day when we were both walking to the parking lot I told her that her daughters were so pretty.....and the girls said ...."She is NOT our Mother , she is our step mo

Living in two worlds....

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I find myself living two lives.....one happy with hubby alone and at peace and the other one stressful and feeling unhappy when the ss13 comes over.......he makes the days he is here very streeful and nasty by creating lots of drama, bad behavior and gets his dad be in a bad mood.......I hate seeing the mess he makes and he doesn't pick up after himself and makes us repeat things over and over and he still does what he wants....its all about him......and only about him.......so I know have happy days when he is not here and happy days when he is not.....Does this happend to you too?

What can we to fix this?

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My SS13 has the habit of locking the door to his room everytime he goes in there. The problem is that he falls asleep or acts like he is asleep and his dad can't open the door to order him to take his shower or do his homework, Its like a nightmare everynight here. Kid locks door, that starts screaming for him to open it up, then kid doesn't open door, dad gets very mad and finaly opens the door by forcing it open.....after about 30-45 mins of trying. Kid then takes about another an hour to take his shower since he falls asleep again afther he locks his door again.

Sick of it....

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Every time SS13 behaves bad or losses something his dad and the SS13 get all work up and its all drama over here.They started SS13 mediction....in a pills form.....so this monday morning his ddad is looking for the pills like crazy asking me if I tiik them from the spot he put them in.......I had to say NO 3 times yet SS13 kept saying he didn't take them, and since his dad didn't take them I was the only other person left to ask.....I was very up set about this 13 year boy losing and misplacing things all the time at our home and his dad asking me if I know where they are.

Thanksgiving at my son's!!!!

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I'm looking forward Thanksgiving this year.....my married son will be hosting it at his new home and my daughter who is in law school will be coming come too. We are not sure if ss12.5 is coming or not and if he does it will great since there will be alot of my family members to keep him busy. I'm looking forward to a family Thanksgiving....the only catch is that my ex will be there too.....I haven't seen him since our son got married two years ago and he hasn't met my boyfriend......lets just hope things are peaceful....wish me luck! Thanks....guys for being there for me. Hugs

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