I think i really find this theraputic. So I am going to go on again. I think it is mostly for my benefit. Well life is getting to be a little beter at home. My fiance has talked to his wife, and tried to get her off his insurance. WEll neither worked, but at least he tried. NOw it is time to hire an attorney I guess. Seems like such a big move. It just seems as if the wife, or ex-wife per'se will lie to get anything and everything she wants. She has their son in a government preschool, free, as she lied about her income and forgot to state that my BF is paying a large chunk of child support. She is collecting foodstamps, I think she must have forgot to inform them of the 2200 a month of her income that she is reporting to the court, as well as the 700 a month in child support she is collecting from us. She is also getting full medical insurance for both her and her son thru the state, while I am paying out of pocket for my medical care, and my BF has to keep her on his insurance to boot. It just seems as if the system is set up for people who choose to lie, cheat and manipulate the system and people. It is such bunk. I on the other hand, care for and love her child, while she is on trips, and when we have him with us. She doe nothing but bad mouths me and my BF and allows the most aweful things to be said about us, in the name of God. as a metter of fact we were sitting as a family and watching Sabrina the Teenage witch program, and he stands up and says I will not let Satan win. What kind of statement is that for a five year old child to make. He told us he got it from his mother, and that this cute little show is Satan at work with myself and hius father. What kind of mother puts a child in a position like that. Cant there ever just be a time when a kid can be a kid, run and play with normal kids, and have a good time just growing up.