I will probably never understand this, I guess because I dont think the way BM does. her and dh dated for several years and were always breaking up and getting back together, maybe that is why she thinks that she actually has a chance again with dh, even though he has told her several times he is done with her, he is with me now, that he is MARRIED to me, (something he never did with her) and that we are together for life. they went to sd's speech class a few days ago and bm started talking about the past and was saying 'im not sure if I want to get back together with you after everything' dh was like hold up, uhm that was never an option for me, im with HM now and divorcing is not an option. she got kind of quiet after that. he is nervous that she wont sign their agreement (trying to fight this out of court since she is broker than broke and dh doesnt want to have to give his lawyer more money) cuz she acted like she forgot what they talked about. His lawyer called him yesterday and said its all typed up, just wanted to get dh's approval then send it to bm's lawyer and then they would sign it.

I mean seriously though? I know you have had a history with this man, and maybe before in the past when he said he didnt want to be with you, he didnt mean it, but after everything you have put him through with sd, you think he would want to be with you again? especially everytime you try to talk about the past he stops you and says it doesnt matter anymore im married?? how many times does he have to say it before it gets through your head?
When someone tells me they are done with me (or im done with them), that to me means the relationship is OVER. I dont think I will ever understand this woman, me and her are so different and think so differently. I wish i could get her medically evaluated or something! lol