Well...I talked with dh this evening before he left for work (second job on tuesday's and Saturdays)...told him that SD(17) must really be getting irritated that I have been ignoring her. Because she is amping up her passive aggressive tactics...doing lots of the little things she knows bothered me before...but I have let go since I realized she didn't matter to me and I started ignoring her.

She won't do her chores until after her dad gets home now...she hides out till he gets home (fine by me, that means I don't have to see you or deal with you...no skin off my back honey!) She won't do all of her chores, conveniently forgetting half of them...(no biggie, I just let her dad know and he makes her do it now }:) ) I have shown her MANY times how to apply her makeup...and she has done it that way and received many compliments...so she is deciding to look like rainbow bright lately LOL (dude...if you want to go out in public looking like a damn clown...thats your business!) and she just loves to take tuesday nights when her dad is at work, to try and push my buttons...it has taken her an hour and a half to do the dishes...and she is still not done (hey its your time not mine lol...i am doing what I want) when she is done with the dishes...I will probably have to remind her of what her dad told her before he left...and that is to finish cleaning her room...which she has been doing for a straight week now! This chic need to get a freakin' life...dang ...she should be focused on prom and friends etc...but not her...noooo ...pushing buttons at home is waaay more fun for this chic.